为小标题，先看标题意思
a:把你自个放到其别人的鞋子里
b:tailor你的交流
c:花时刻给每自个
d:提示，不要躲藏，信息
e:慢下来听
f:摆出好气色，老是
g:给compliment，不要太多
有大标题，为五个办法赢得每自个，在单位
定位期间主旨句，最终一句转机词，中心大写转机句，最初第一句，句意重复
41.定位在最终一句，the lesson is not that you should make your personal life an open book, but rather, when given the option to offer up details about yourself or painstakingly conceal them, you should just be honest.规划为not……but……，所以要点在but后边，为when given the option to offer up details about yourself or painstakingly conceal them, you should just be honest当……时，你大约诚笃，只需d的不要躲藏可以对应诚笃，所以选d
42.定位在最终一句，do your best to engage coworkers in a genuine,back-and-forth conversation, rather than prioritizing your own thoughts.中rather than，阐明要点在前面，为你最佳参加……攀谈，没有显着的对应联络，往前看，第三句呈现了but，看but后边but you need to take time to hear out your coworkers, too.可是你需要时刻去听你的火伴。而第二句we often feel the need to tell others how we feel, whether it’s a concern about a project, a stray thought, or a compliment.中tell others how we feel告诉其别人感触，也可以对应听你的火伴，所以选e
43.定位在第二句，but in addition to those trusted coworkers, you should expand your h

orizons and find out about all the people around you.为……这些信赖的火伴，你大约拓宽你的视野发现……每自个……。只需c的每自个对应此处，所以选c
44.定位在第四句，but don’t overdo it or be fake about it.可是不要过多做，那样有点假。只需g有不要太多的意思，所以选g
45.定位在第一句，this one may be a bit more difficult to pull off, but it can go a long way to
achieving results.这个或许有一点难完成，但它可以走很长的路完成。没有对应的有些，垂青复，第二句呈现了they appreciate from an interaction他们感谢交流，第四句some people like small talk一些人喜爱小的说话，都呈现了交流的意思，所以选b